When Shame Kept Me Silent—Here’s How I Found My Voice (And How You Can, Too)

Hey Friend,

I used to stare at my blank screen, desperate to string two words together that wouldn’t sound ridiculous. But I’d spiral into an awful mindset: “Who do you think you are? Nobody wants to hear your story.” Before I knew it, I had convinced myself I had nothing valuable to say.

And it wasn’t just writer’s block. It felt like a personal failure—like I simply wasn’t good enough to create anything worth sharing. That’s about the time I decided to give ChatGPT a chance. I was skeptical—who isn’t these days? But you know what? Having a little creative ally whisper ideas in my ear was exactly what I needed to break the shame cycle.

Here’s what changed:

• I had prompts and angles to get the ball rolling—no more blank-page paralysis.

• I discovered new ways to shape my personal experiences into something others wanted to read.

• Most importantly, I felt a renewed confidence in sharing my message, because my “nothing to say” mindset got some serious pushback from the prompts ChatGPT offered.

If You’re a Coach…
You might be wondering how this applies to you. Blogs aren’t just for “bloggers.” They can be a powerful way to actually reach the clients you’d love to work with—especially if you sometimes struggle to find the right words. By blending your unique perspective and experiences with a strategic approach to writing, your blog can become a magnet for people who truly get you and want your help.

That’s what my Permission program is about: helping you embrace your authentic voice, then using tools like ChatGPT to actually enjoy the writing process (rather than run from it). Because you don’t need to be a novelist; you just need a little support in translating what’s in your head into posts that resonate with your dream clients.

Why This Matters

• It’s not about random “tips and tricks.” It’s about building genuine trust so your ideal clients feel like they know you.

• You’ll save time, because staring at a blinking cursor for hours isn’t exactly an effective marketing method.

• You won’t just feel more confident—you’ll be more confident, sharing who you are and what you do without that lurking voice telling you it’s not good enough.

Ready to explore what Permission could look like for you? Hit reply or click here to set up a quick call. I’d love to walk you through how blogging can help you step out of the shadows and into the spotlight your work deserves.

Live Pleasurably,